Deciding to change the look of your character cannot be done right away. It takes a little bit of time and progression before you are able to change your appearance.
If you find yourself wanting a change, here’s our guide on how to change your appearance in Elden Ring:
As soon as you are able to go to the Roundtable Hold, seek the woman wearing black that sits in a bed. When you talk to her, she will offer you a hug. Just across her is a mirror that you can interact with. That mirror across her will allow you to change your appearance.